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Ranniefrench@sc.rr.com's avatar

I'm an 80 year old woman - retired schoolteacher - raised 3 daughters - had very good and decent husband - - and not sure why or how, but I receive your messages. (Maybe one of my daughters knows you?) Just thought I'd tell you I thought this was your best essay yet . . . perhaps because your dad and mine were very much alike. Best Wishes to you.

Paul Ollinger's avatar

Hi Rannie. Thanks for the kind words.

(sometimes when you subscribe to one substack, it's easy to accidentally subscribe to another one that the former writer recommends)

Boomx's avatar

Good story about when Dad's were Dad and not trying to be kids buddy or big bro.

Grateful I have a Dad cut from a similar mold as yours. I caused him plenty of grief over the years with my insistence on making bad decisions.

Turney Duff's avatar

Well said -- love it

Stephen Governale's avatar

Well said Paul. I think about this a lot with two teen daughters - what they’re exposed to personally and what the boys they date / will date are shaped by in media. Scares the shit out of me - parental roles are arguably more important than ever.

Thanks and keep the great content coming!

Paul Ollinger's avatar

Thanks, Gov. I know you've done a great job of modeling "good man" for your girls.

Spencer Jakab's avatar

This is great Paul.

Paul Ollinger's avatar

Thank you, Spencer.