Where do you sit on the social hierarchy? You might not think about it daily, but if I asked you to compare your status to that of one of your friends, you'd probably know the answer: above some, below others, and probably on about the same level as most.
Perhaps you'd follow up with questions like, “Do you mean who has more money? Or who has more recognition in the community or who's more attractive or physically fit?”
This request for clarification demonstrates the nature of status, and how we go about gaining it and retaining it, whether or not we are conscious of our efforts to do so.
My guest this episode is Will Storr. He's the author of a fascinating book called The Status Game.
Will’s writing has appeared in The Guardian, The Sunday Times, The New Yorker, and the New York Times. His journalism has been recognized with awards from the National Press Club, the One World Press, and Amnesty International. If I haven't yet convinced you of his status, I’ll also share that he's a great-looking guy who grows giant yams. (You'll understand that reference about 20 minutes into the episode.)
In this conversation, Will and I discuss why status matters. We explore whether the pursuit of status is a fool's game for small-minded people with totally fragile egos. We talk about a totally bizarre source of status in Polynesia that demonstrates the arbitrariness and locally relative nature of status.
We talk about whether it's better to be a big fish in a small pond or a small fish in a big pond. We talk about how the quest for status shows up in politics and religion, and boy does it ever.
Lastly, we discuss how the thirst for status among even the most rich and famous among us, like Sir Paul McCartney, demonstrates the insatiable need for this elusive and addictive drug that is STATUS.
The Status Game: The Book - available on Amazon.
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