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From Chaos to Cambridge (w/ Rob Henderson)
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From Chaos to Cambridge (w/ Rob Henderson)

He was drinking by age five, shuffled through ten foster homes, and emotionally shut down by the time most kids are starting kindergarten—yet Rob Henderson clawed his way from chaos to Cambridge. In this powerful episode, Rob, author of Troubled: A Memoir of Foster Care, Family, and Social Class, shares his incredible journey from trauma and addiction to earning a PhD from Cambridge University.

He opens up about childhood instability, military discipline, elite university culture, and his groundbreaking concept of “luxury beliefs”—status-signaling values held by the privileged that often harm the poor. This conversation is raw, eye-opening, and packed with insights about resilience, class, and what truly shapes success.

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